Mad Orchid

You prayed for nothing
When you prayed for change
I only want this feeling to go away
You prayed for nothing
When you prayed for me
Just to watch me sway the hate

Now I’ve called you out
Because I’ve got to tell you something

It’s so hard to show emotion
When everything I’ve loved
Has crumbled in my hands
And now I’m running
And I thought you were my friend
But I’ve come to realize
That I’ll never mean anything to you

So we fell a little short of understanding
Was the feeling worth the falling
So we fell a little short
Of finding that healing
And my friend
It kind of seems like your dead to me

I wish I could say
That I never needed anyone
I never needed you anyway
But I’m calling you out
Because I’ve got to tell something

It’s so hard to show emotion
When everything I’ve loved
Has crumbled in my hands
And now I’m running
And I thought you were my friend
But I’ve come to realize
That I’ll never mean anything to you

All that I’ve given
All that I’ve done
All have lost the faith
And it feels like a punishment

It’s so hard to show emotion
When everything I’ve loved
Has crumbled in my hands
And now I’m running
And I thought you were my friend
But I’ve come to realize
That I’ll never mean anything to you

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Betty Dodson, Ph.D. is an American sex educator, author and artist. Dodson held the first one-woman show of erotic art in NYC is ’68. She left the art world to teach sex to women. She is widely known as a pioneer in women’s (and to a somewhat lesser extent men’s) sexual liberation, having sold more than 1 million copies of her first book, Sex for One. Much of her fame has come from her work not only advocating masturbation, but conducting workshops for more than 30 years in which groups of about 10 or more women (and at least once a group of men) would talk, explore their own bodies, and masturbate together. She hosted a public access cable television program in New York City in the early 80′s, and conducted her workshop – a dozen or so nude women discussing and practicing masturbation – on TV.Dodson’s books include Liberating Masturbation, a self-published book that became a feminist classic.Sex for One: The Joy of Self-Loving and Orgasms for Two: the Joy of Partnersex. She has also produced four videos: Selfloving: Portrait of a Sexual Seminar, Celebrating Orgasm: Women’s Private Selfloving Sessions, Viva la Vulva; Women’s Sex Organs Revealed and The Orgasm Doctor”: Two Private Hands-on Sex Coaching Sessions.

She is a founder of the pro-sex feminist movement, having left behind the more traditional feminist movement because she considered it banal, antisexual and over-politicized. Dodson considers too much is made of sexual labels and embraces them all by calling herself a heterosexual, bisexual lesbian. She looks forward to the day we can all be just “sexual.” In recent years she has criticized Eve Ensler’s The Vagina Monologues, which she believes has a negative and restrictive view of sexuality and an anti-male bias (Dodson, 2001).

Dodson holds a Ph.D. from the Institute for the Advanced Study of  Human Sexuality for her research work on sexuality.

Dodson maintains a private practice in New York City and has an active website. In an article on her website about hands-on sex therapy, she explains her choice against pursuing a degree in psychology and licensing as a therapist since it would have prevented her from continuing with the types of sex workshops and counseling for women that she had been doing for decades.  While she doesn’t presently offer her Bodysex Workshops, she is available for private individual and couples coaching.

Dodson appeared in a Season 4 episode of Penn & Teller’s Bullshit! that dealt with abstinence. She was also on The View, and has appeared in numerous sex documentaries.

Most recently, Dodson has partnered with Carlin Ross and created a sexuality portal for women under the brand Dodson and Ross. Together, they’re launching an online video series “Basic Sex Skills: The New Porn.

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